It would be a dream come true to have a beautiful girlfriend or a gorgeous wife that truly and unconditionally loved you. The truth is, you probably have a better chance hitting the lottery. This is exactly the type of stuff that only happens in Hollywood. Let me tell you why. A beautiful woman will always

have options. She will walk down the street and have literally 9 out of 10 guys hitting on her. There’s too much competition for a hot chick. Most attractive women who can have any man they want will choose a dummy that’ll spend the largest amount of money on them, and why shouldn’t they? Why should these ladies struggle financially when they don’t have to? My friends, these types of women are a waste of the two most important factors in life, time and money.

Beautiful women always have a couple of stuck up, snobby friends. They encourage each other to seek out the “better deal.” If one of their friends is dating an ordinary guy, they’ll take the responsibility to find that friend a “better man.” And by better man do I mean a guy that loves their friend more than her current boyfriend? Not at all my brothers. They will first ask one of their rich (idiot) boy toys if they know anybody for their friend. If that doesn’t work, they’ll go on a search for a guy who appears to have money. These ladies know how to hunt down financially stable men. They have been doing it for years and are therefore, professionals at it. They will make plans to go to a high-end lounge or some other upscale location. The night of the “chase”, they give their loser boyfriends some excuse as to where they’re going. The “ladies” might say they’re going to a concert or out to dinner with friends from school/work. While at the location, they look around until they see a guy dressed properly. After that, they must hear his voice to make a primary analysis (your speech can reveal education level). They basically want to look for a guy who obviously has self-confidence. After the determination, one friend goes in for the kill or all retreat. If you find yourself in one of these situations, pay attention to the type of questions that are asked. When the question, “what do you do for a living?” or “who do you live with?” comes up then you know what’s going on. Tell the conniver that you’re there with somebody or that she’s not your type.

Those of you who might have already met someone through a friend or at some social gathering may wonder if the person you met is a potential gold digger. To figure this out, ask yourself, “what does this person have to gain by going out with me?” If the person is unemployed or uneducated then you have your answer. She has to stay with you because she wouldn’t be able to support herself on her own. This is why you should search for a woman that has achieved the same goals as yourself (refer to my previous article). If you cannot be with a female who isn’t a ‘10’, consider this; what does a beautiful woman have to offer anyway? Sure your friends will envy you but for how long? Once the cash flow comes to a halt, do you really think your sweetie pie will stick around when she has 5 other guys knocking on her door? She does not realize at a young age that her beauty isn’t going to last forever. This type of female will ultimately lose in the end. She will go from man to man until she is so used and abused that, at a point in her life, she just settles for anyone.

My advice to you is; never judge a female solely on her looks. Gorgeous woman are almost all the same. They are shallow, disrespectful, conceded, verbally abusive and have no personality or sense of humor. There are plenty of above average looking girls out there who have a lot to offer. Don’t find yourself buying your girlfriend or wife a new Coach bag every week just to keep her from leaving you. That is no way to live. The key to how to get worthwhile chick to notice you is to appear confident. Women can smell confidence a mile away. Show that you can take care of yourself and a woman will respect that. You don’t have to be a millionaire, just in control of your finances, to land an attractive woman who you share equilibrium with (similar salaries, intelligence level, goals, etc.). Just remember never to allow a woman to rely on you for financial support. The divorce rate is at 60%(as I also mentioned in my previous article), the wife files 75% of those divorces, and the number 1 reason for those filings is lack of finances. Many divorces or break-ups can be avoided if both parties attained financially stability before taking the next step. You have to realize that these are tough times. This isn’t the 1960’s where the cost of living accounted for 15% of one individual’s paycheck. If a relationship or family suffers from economic despair, than any woman, not just a beautiful woman, will have to depart for her own best interest.

Take care of yourself then look to take care of someone else.